Sunday, February 26, 2006

frustrations, juxtapositions, banana cakes, malaria, whatnot & sea snakes

blog blong jon

 

frustrations, juxtapositions, banana cakes, malaria, whatnot & sea snakes

 

Well – one frustration is my English. One only has to read a blog by mamma Vivienne, read her flowing style with broad vocabulary and then read a blog by myself, with its jerky style, lack of finesse, and many mistakes. Vivienne should be the English Teacher and Pasta. Some of you reading this are already aware that lack of eloquence in my writing and speaking is a source of frustration for me. I tend to speak (and preach) with a street language vocabulary when at times I would like to be able to use words that convey deeper meaning. I am a philosopher of sorts – with at times quite deep insightful thoughts – yet all too often I can’t get them down onto paper. By the time I am writing they are gone, or to blurred. Perhaps it’s lack of discipline instead of poor English, perhaps its just life!

 

I do enjoy reading (but have thoughts and feelings of jealousy) when I read a book by someone who has penned the same or very similar thoughts to me and penned them well. Outlining the pros and cons of a thought or concept. I enjoy seeing how ponderings similar to mine maybe do make sense – perhaps I did have it right – even if I couldn’t get my thoughts as clear. (By the way - my understanding is a blog can be anything – including rambling on like this, letting my thoughts, my natural Stream Of Consciousness style go wherever it takes me). A book I have been reading lately which I recommend (I have only read the first few chapters) is A Generous Orthodoxy by Bruce Mac Clearen. (I like his style of writing as much as his thinking). If you are a thinking kind of Christian, read it.

 

Other frustrations I have here at Talua – which in a way connected to the above frustration of not being able to pen thoughts clearly – is, one has, or I do anyway, have so many new experiences – some of them seem surreal full on weird juxtapositions of sights, smells and sounds, that at the time they happen I wish I could stop, and blog them – or get them down on paper – not to brag, but to keep them in the memory of being, that is – my memory but also for other people to be able to enjoy.

 

For example – last Friday I was a passenger in the new Talua Training Centre Bus. The bus goes into town twice per day as a commercial bus (seats about 14 people), picking up people from Talua and the surrounding villages, taking them on the 45-minute drive to The Canal (Luganville, aka sometimes as Santo). At one moment in time we turned a corner and were looking down towards the blue sea, at the same time the sun popped out as the clouds hid away and hence the view was made more spectacular. Only seconds before this Pasta Frank (our driver) turned the bus CD player on and this sensual French voice was singing in the background – I have no idea what she was singing – it was in French. The air conditioning was on – I could feel the cool air trying to reach me, not quite making it, it was still warm in the bus as I was sweating just from sitting. In that instant, there was a momentary impression of this is sweet…this is wow. I am not sure if my thinking was this is almost modern – western, I think it was more this is just beautiful, this is pleasant (capture this moment was another thought), I struggle to pen what it was like – but it was good whatever it was. I then looked to the left and saw in a coconut plantation with piles of coconuts in various places ready for husking for copra harvesting, and in the same paddock, an old, totally rusted out, tractor with a group of people loading an old trailer, again, rusty in colour and condition, and I was brought back to the world of Santo.

 

So the mixture my senses were taking in was the enhanced beautiful view, the sitting in a brand new bus that still had the brand new smell, the sensual voice, whiffs of cool air adding to the newness of the bus, and then clang of the rusty tractor and piles of coconuts.

 

It is good to be here. The experiences we as a family are sharing make the harder times worth it. An example of a harder time could be last night sleeping, waking up sweating and sticky. Not from sex or from a fever, but from the fact it was humid. Then the air booms with amazing thunder – a sound like a jet fighter flying overhead very fast with the difference being it keeps flying over again and again. The sounds of bats outside talking to each other, loud insects and thunder are interesting, the stickiness – that is when trying to get back to sleep – is a tad unpleasant.

 

Other nights the temperature is quite pleasant. The rain cools things down as well. On a hot day the temperature inside our home gets to around 31. 32 being the maximum so far on the tiny digital readout. If we get no rain, it remains 31 until 7pm or later. If it rains say mid afternoon, the temperature inside drops to 29 within a matter of minutes, and sometimes it remains cooler for the rest of the day. 

 

About the kaleidoscope of sights, sounds and smells. There have been other moments I have forgotten that at the time had a magical feeling to them. One I do remember is from the week before – coming back from town on the back of the Talua truck. A big earth moving truck was going the other way – totally chocker of people heading into town late on a Friday. I doubt there was any room left for another person to stand or crouch on the truck. All smiling, laughing and waving, yelling out to our truckload of people, although we were not as full. The memory to hold onto from that snapshot was the people – that is the faces, the white teeth, the smiles, the happiness, a simple lifestyle that rewards individuals with a happy and contented life. Is this an oversimplification? Perhaps. But it is one worth pondering about as we in the west rush around as quickly as possible so we can relax for our annual 3-5 weeks per year.

 

A gadget magazine that I subscribe to turned up the other day. There was an article about what cable should one use when connecting the various components of their home theatre sound system together. Prices for cables varying from $20 or so per meter to over $350 per meter – does the expensive cable ensure the plasma TV signal is clearer? From a simplicity of lifestyle perspective, it is not the issue of having a Plasma or LCD TV, if one is blessed with enough money to have one, have one – just share it! I think it’s the issue of complicatedness. A cable is just a cable – there are more important things in life. Here at Talua, I am thoroughly enjoying the simplicity of lifestyle.

 

Yes – we all miss things. And yes some days we splash out to make things more enjoyable. Like today’s lunch – to make it a more special meal, Viv cooked pizza (the bread maker made the dough while we were at church), I iced the banana cake I baked last night. For the meal we also ate a packet of chips and a Paw Paw – almost party food! A comment made at the table – when next at a eat-all-you-can pizza restaurant, we will only need two pieces each instead of the usual as many as possible. The two pieces being enough! (Perhaps only a Parkes can understand what is involved here as genetically it would seem we have big appetites, too big for our own good).

 

This reminds me of what someone in NZ said to me before we came here “you will loose weight with the heat”. Another person said they only know one person who has gained weight while in Vanuatu, most people loose it. Well for me – I will probably put weight on – we eat a lot of bread. I do sweat a lot but we have plenty of food.

 

We can buy meat in town for a good price – so far the quality has been OK. We do eat plenty of fruit - currently in the kitchen there are four pineapples (waiting for them to come ripe), some oranges, two paw paw’s and we have nearly finished the latest bunch of banana’s – we buy a huge bunch and tie them to a rafter on the veranda, picking off the bananas when we eat them. The only problem was this time the whole bunch came ripe at the same time. So I baked 3 banana cakes this week.

 

Last year many students got Malaria and so we are careful. We have not too many mosquitoes buzzing around inside our house and if we see them we try to squash them. On Thursday we had a tour of Navota Farm (I will blog my thoughts about the farm at a later date. At the moment there is too much info to process) and by Friday afternoon I had heaps of mozzie bite spots on my legs. For whatever reason they came up quite red – not too itchy - so yes we all get bitten. Apparently the Malaria carrying mozzies have clocks in their nests cos they don’t come out until 6pm. Anyway – the reason for this paragraph is I am very grateful that none of us have reacted badly to Lariam! An expensive but effective Malaria prevention medication (250mg Mefloquine) we take once a week. For some people it can cause major psycho problems but none of us have had nightmares, or hallucinations. So we are grateful.

 

What not. It might seem strange that I am teaching English at Talua when I struggle with penning thoughts and ideas clearly and eloquently. Yet, with teaching English at Talua, it is not eloquence that is needed. In both the Diploma class (D1) and the Certificate class (C1), they have basic English – perhaps around year nine in NZ. Rather it is things like the use of the verb “to be” and ‘tenses’ they get really mixed up with. So I am covering some of the following topics:

  1. nouns (especially plurals such as children, sheep, fish and things like hair which do not end in 's' but in English mean more than one.
  2. pronouns (I, me, my, mine, etc.)
  3. tenses (present, past, perfect, and later continuous.
  4. regular verbs and irregular ones
  5. comparisons (big, bigger, biggest; some, more, most; bad, worse, worst, etc.)
  6. direct and indirect speech.

 

One of the things I am looking forward to is helping them to argue, to disagree, to have a different opinion. Read Viv’s blog about how they often say yes or answer saying what they think you want to hear.

 

I have also been teaching them basic down to earth stuff on how to use the library and basically survive and do well in a theological course. A Jon Parkes How to Survive Theological Studies and Do Well 101. This includes giving them a theological vocabulary so they can read and comprehend the NIV Bible and the books in the library.

 

On Friday I spent some time talking about the single and plural of sheep, and how cattle is always plural (somehow I had been talking about bulls and cows etc). At one stage I was asked a question something like “what is a cow?” – in context of cattle I guess – perhaps they call a paddock of cattle a paddock of cows even if there are bulls etc.

 

So this was my answer. If Father Bull eats 3 bales of hay per day (I explained what a bale of hay is, and wrote up the amounts for them to calculate the answer), and Baby Bull eats 1 bale of hay per day. How many bales of hay per day does Mother Bull eat? After some thinking the answers varied. Some said 4. Others said 2. I explained that they were wrong – as there is no such thing as a mother bull – she has to be a cow!

 

They understood straightway and there was plenty of laughter.

 

So I enjoy teaching. I try to be interesting and have jokes. Sometimes I get carried away and start preaching instead of teaching – say if explaining the meaning of a theological word. So yes – it is rewarding.

 

So that’s my blog. If you read it all – well done (its over 2400 words). When reading through the above I noticed I didn’t mention God. Well as God is already fully in my life – he is in the lines above as well. As to how things between him and myself are at the moment – I need to give that some more thought. I think they are OK. There have been times I’ve prayed so desperately – more than ever before. Has he answered? I guess he has - on something’s I have yet to see!

 

I will say hearing his voice is strange at the moment and perhaps I need to stop and ask him why. Perhaps there are so many new things happening I am experiencing my ears are a bit blocked or just hearing too many things – perhaps in the silence of Talua it is really noisy.

 

Anyway. God Bless you.

Jon

 

Oh, about the sea snake. We saw our first one yesterday when swimming in the rock pools on the reef. The sea was too rough to swim out from the reef so the kids swam in the rock pools. After about an hour (Phillip and Simon had gone back home), Connie and William and I were in the water, looking at a sea cucumber some of the local kids had got out of the water when one of them said, “snake, snake”. We all got out of the water to see a sea snake swim by and spend a few minutes hovering in the rock pool before heading further along.

 

The theory (so it seems) is when you see one. You get out, go home, let the snake swim away and swim in the reef the next day. So we will see. As it’s been pouring rain all afternoon today and so we have not ventured to the reef for another swim.

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Blog blong Jon

It's easy to help

One thing I am enjoying is how - in a way - it's easy to help. Even just by offering an outside (objective) viewpoint - it helps them to see things. No doubt my objective thinking will be off the ballpark at times, but yesterday I went to the local primary school.

 

We hoping our kids spend one day a week there (on sports day), so they can join in the afternoon sports events and perhaps join in classrooms in the morning. They enjoyed it. Comments that night having tea were, (William, “It was really great”, Simon, “it was OK – better than I thought”, and Phillip, “it was putty…you didn’t go to the loo…” Connie found it a bit overwhelming. The kids also felt very embarrassed to have everyone watching them etc.

 

Anyway, about the school, there must be about 15 - 20 solar panels doing nothing. (in NZ that could be as much as 20K worth of panels being wasted). It is thought the panels were given through aid about 10 years ago - they were used for lighting in the classrooms – now, only one works. I understand the problem is the batteries, I presume being 10 yrs they need replacing.

 

So I asked some teachers why not get new batteries, or sell them to use money on other needed capital, or sell one to pay for new batteries (one might be enough - I don't really know), or get some of the panels (they are all spread around the school outside each class room) and join them together outside the school office so they could have a school computer that works during the day - not only for the 1½ hrs each night when the generator is working.

 

Their comment was it is good to have new ideas, etc. Even giving lessons on simple battery maintenance would be help. Will they do anything? I don't know but I think it got the teachers thinking.

 

I am enjoying teaching. Please pray I do a good job.

 

On the farm - the 4 wheel bike was not working. I am not a mechanic - in fact the opposite, but they said there was battery problems, I checked, all it was was a fuse. I explained the connections also need to be tight, they tightened them and it's now going. (I confess I was lucky cos that problem was easy). So I am enjoying it here.

 

Although I was stung by a centipede in my sleep last night. I woke with a shock. Trying to work out what happened - under the bed was a big centipede. Two night a go - Viv couldn't sleep (read her latest blog), and when she was finally asleep, I woke with cramp (first time in years)...and yes it work her!

Some more blog from Viv.

Early one morning 
I’m not sure if it is a reaction to the anti-malarial medication or just a reaction to the newness of everything and the heat, etc, but I often find myself lying awake in the night. This is the situation again tonight. It is almost 2 am and my mind is very full and active so I thought I would try to write some of these thoughts down. This could even prove to be the best time to get on the computer, without the almost never-ending demands of the kids, and also not having to compete with Jon to use it. The desktop is coming sometime, along with the rest of our shipped goods – presently somewhere in Port Vila in the midst of customs for some undetermined period of time.
This is also a good time to write from the point of view that it is quite a pleasant temperature to work in and there is a slight, cool breeze coming in through the open glass louvre windows. Our poor old laptop will not get too over heated, and I shouldn’t break into a sweat just sitting typing as I usually do.
 
I experienced today, with Madelyne our house gel, the amazing deference that the Ni –Van people show to white people like myself. We had been warned of this phenomenon, but today’s incident brought it home.
 
Madelyne isn’t particularly easy to talk to. Even though she speaks quite good English, she is reluctant to talk a lot, and often shies away with embarrassed giggles, and her hand over her face, from any compliment or encouragement that I try to offer in response to her amazing work around our home. Perhaps because of this and my own lack of confidence in my role of employing her to do the house work, I often find myself answering her questions for her, or at least offering her possible options to answer my questions. Today, for example, it was relatively cool midmorning after heavy rain, so I offered to make her a cup of tea. I normally try to get her to have a wee break in the morning at some point, because it seems unless pushed she would spend the whole morning working very hard, often out in the hot sun, without a break. Any way, in offering her a cup of tea, I tried to find out how she liked it – with or without milk. I guess that I composed the question wrong and she said yes to milk, even though with a little more pushing I discovered that she really didn’t want milk at all. I probably should have thought of that - if you don’t have a fridge, you would never be in the habit of using milk at all, and actually there are no dairy farms here. All milk is imported as powder or UHT so probably in the villages there would be no culture of use of milk at all.
 
I hope that she enjoyed her tea. She would never say if she didn’t anyway, but she wouldn’t sit down and drink it, having a real break, she took it outside and had it while she hand washed our clothes!!
 
I have had other experiences with her not wanting to contradict or say no to anything I say, especially in trying to ascertain how and when she would prefer to be paid for her work in the house and also for a dress she made for me. I guess I will need to be more careful in how I ask questions of her in future. I feel a bit uncomfortable with this total deference to a white person’s wants.
 
Ants 
I hate ants. Having lived in Auckland and Tauranga, I am quite used to the situation of having ants in the home, and although I hate finding them in my kitchen in NZ I was quite prepared for them to be a problem here. I feel that God must have given me a certain amount of special grace to cope with them here as I haven’t felt too phased by them.
 
The issues are , of course, adequate ant – proof storage and kitchen hygiene – trying to wipe up any crumbs or sticky spills as soon as possible after a meal. Give an inch and they will take a mile – the only real problem we’ve had so far was in the peanut butter. They found their way into the jar when the lid wasn’t quite tightened. I scooped them all out and we ate the rest of the contents. It was far too expensive to throw it away! Needless to say, the peanut butter now lives in our small fridge. The small jar of marmite that we brought from NZ is also in there. I’m not sure if ants would go for it or not, but I didn’t like my chances of being able to fish any out if they decided they liked it!!
 
The dishes, too - as much as we’d love to be able to shut everything away in the dishwasher, that isn’t an option here, so we have to educate the kids in the fine art of dishwashing (after having heated some water on the gas stove first, of course).
 
One can’t help but have a certain amount of admiration for the wee blighters, too, especially when you observe an ant struggling under a burden several times its own size. Yesterday I had to spend several very long, hot hours waiting for ride home from town. At some point a lady sat next to me and snacked on some peanuts ( this is straight from the shell – not the shiny - packeted, roasted and salted variety). She dropped some of the rubbish where she was and some time later I observed the ants on the ground examining the leftovers. I noticed a group of perhaps a dozen ants struggling with a relatively large scrap that they wanted. As I watched them on and off, over a period of  probably an hour or 2, they struggled to get themselves going anywhere with this scrap. I guess they didn’t have themselves quite balanced or the teamwork quite sorted for they spent ages kind of going around in circles and not making any progress. I glanced back at them occasionally, amazed at their perseverance. And then all of a sudden they got it right and they were off, quick time with their prize – due reward for all that effort.
 
At this point I probably should make some clever observation about teamwork and unity, etc or quote a verse from Proverbs about the industriousness of ants, but it is now after 3 am and I can’t be bothered. I hope I have done enough writing to solve my insomnia problems and I’m heading for bed!! 

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

some pics





here are some images (i hope - as it is soooo slow). In the tree hut the kids made and jumping into the river (the river is a 20 minute walk away. Simon swiming in the sea -can only go about knee deep cos of sharks, a person was killed a couple of years ago just along from here. Phillip and William sitting outside our tempory house.

Monday, February 13, 2006

Blog Blong picinini

What I like most about Talua

What I currently miss the most?

William’s most Favourite thing about talua is that the locals are nice and
friendly.
What William currently misses the most about New Zealand is playing with my
friends.

Connie’s most Favourite thing about talua is going to the river and climbing
trees.
What Connie currently misses the most about New Zealand is playing with my
friends in Tauranga.

Simon’s most Favourite thing about talua is playing in the trees with the
locals.
What Simon currently misses the most about New Zealand is playing with my
friends and finding out all the things at intermediate.

Phillip’s most favourite thing about Talua is swimming and playing in the
river with the local kids. What Phillip misses the most about New Zealand is
mucking around with his mates.

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Blog blong Mama Vivienne

***due to very slow internet - we will NOT post many photos on the blog***

week two - Blog blong Mama Vivienne

It’s time for me to reflect on the last week, and especially on finally
reaching Talua. I say “finally” because it seems to have been a long time
coming. We are sick of packing, and living out of suitcases and then
repacking.

We are now in Talua. We flew Port Vila to Santo early Thursday morning and
were picked up by staff from Talua about 8AM. A while was spent in town
(Luganville) buying the food supplies we need for the following week - we
can get whatever we need, not much selection but what we need, not exotic
but simple – so from a supply point of view we will be fine? We also went to
the butcher to buy stuff for the next week - meat seems slightly cheaper
than in NZ (and much cheaper than in Port Vila).

first impressions

Santo appears to be quieter, cleaner and greener than what we saw of Port
Vila. Unfortunately, we couldn’t see a lot of Efate Island because of lack
of transport and the bad weather associated with Cyclone Jim. So it was a
relief to arrive in the wide empty streets of Luganville. The drive out to
Talua was hot and sunny, but very beautiful, with attractive pastoral scenes
of cattle grazing under coconuts. The road got rather rough but apparently
rarely if ever becomes impassable despite fords, low bridges and swampy
areas.

Talua campus itself is pleasantly tidy, open and green with some large
trees, garden areas and accommodation blocks. Our house is in a block of 2.
It is very tidy and well kept thanks to the previous occupants and a
wonderful house girl – Madelyne. It has just 2 bedrooms and an office but is
quite open and spacious. It also has an inverter so that we can have a
limited electricity supply outside of the generator hours. This is very
important for the breadmaker and occasionally a fan if we are really
desperate.

Orientation week is just beginning so it is too early to know how the daily
routine will go, but we are getting used to the early morning starts – first
bell 5.30 am and lights out when the generator stops around 9pm.

So far, part of our daily routine has included a walk down to Navota farm.
The kids really enjoy swimming in and jumping into the river, chasing crabs
and freshwater crays, collecting shells, etc. It’s just a pity that you get
so hot walking back again.

I’m impressed with how well the kids are coping. Not too many grizzles and
fighting siblings considering it is all so different for them. I am also
really pleased that they are out playing with the local Ni-Van children,
playing, building treehuts, learning about new fruits, walking down to the
river, etc